To get an uncontested divorce both spouses must agree on all issues like division of property, child custody, and support. First, meet residency requirements (one spouse must have lived in NY for at least 1 year). How to Get Uncontested Divorce in New York Fill out forms like the Uncontested Divorce Packet. File papers with the court and pay fees. Serve papers to the spouse. Attend a court hearing if necessary. Receive the final divorce decree. Legal guidance can ensure all paperwork is correctly filed.